A study, of 1,000 men, conducted by luxury hotelier Sandals Resorts revealed that there are still some romantics out there who do think it’s important to say ‘I love you’, open doors ahead of their other half, leave love letters or simply give them a kiss or cuddle.
A study conducted by luxury hotelier Sandals Resorts has revealed that 70% of men only ‘try’ to be romantic when they are on holiday with their partner.
The research also showed that day-to-day, the idea of what a modern man considers to be romantic has changed greatly from what are considered to be more traditional gestures. Putting the bins out, making the bed, letting their partner take control of the TV remote and even just putting the toilet seat down are among the acts that men now consider to be romantic.
The study, of 1,000 men, revealed that there are still some romantics out there who do think it’s important to say ‘I love you’, open doors ahead of their other half, leave love letters or simply give them a kiss or cuddle.
Researchers also found that while the traditional romantic gestures, such as a candlelit dinner or buying flowers are still on the list, helping out with chores or even looking after their children to give their other half a break are also among the modern actions.
However, almost three quarters of men admit they could make more effort in the romance department, whilst eighty-five percent admitted that their relationship could benefit from a holiday or mini-break.
Thirty-seven per cent of men say that this is because they find it easier to be romantic when they are away from home, as they don’t have the usual day-to-day distractions. Another quarter put it down to being in a romantic location, while 24 percent also find it easier to turn on the charm if they are in a romantic hotel. More than one in ten also say that simply being away from the stress and strains of home life helps to put the spark back into their relationship.
Furthermore, the study revealed that more than six in ten couples find they are more romantic with their other half after returning from a break, with the ‘holiday glow’ lasting around three weeks before they get back to their normal routine.
Mohamed Satar, a Head Butler at Sandals Resorts, says, “These days it seems that just helping with everyday chores or remembering their partner’s birthday is considered romantic by the modern man, but whilst these things are important, both parties in a relationship should also make an effort to keep the romance alive.”
“We do find that romance doesn’t always come naturally to some of our guests and that is where we step in helping to create romantic scenarios to surprise their other half. I am sure some of the ladies are left wondering if it’s something in the Caribbean air that has brought out the Casanova in their partner! Although they may have received a little helping hand, we know that everyone has the potential to be a romantic, we are just happy to help bring that side out”.
Satar continues “We are frequently asked for advice for continuing the romance back home, my top take-home tips include; drawing a bubble bath with rose petals and candles, making her favourite cocktail after a hard days work, or even just a surprise picnic of Champagne and strawberries on the living room floor when it’s raining outside. Of course nothing speaks romance more than a holiday or trip away, to enjoy some true quality time together”.
At Sandals Resorts, a great importance is placed on creating the ultimate romantic holiday. Guests can take advantage of the romance service, where a personal butler or concierge will help to create special memories and are on hand to inspire and create tailor-made scenarios.
Romantic gestures – according to men
- Putting the bins out
- Doing the dishes without being asked
- Offering to make a cup of tea
- Saying I love You
- Opening a door for her
- Making the bed
- Looking after the kids so my partner can go out
- Listening to my partner talk or moan about her day without complaining
- A kiss or hug goodbye
- Leaving notes
- Treating her to a day at the spa
- Doing the ironing without being asked
- Putting the toilet seat down
- Agreeing to let them choose the film
- Give her flowers or chocolates
- Surprise night out or weekend away
- Letting my partner take control of the TV remote
- Clearing the toilets
- Cleaning up after myself
- Candlelit dinner
- Remembering anniversaries or birthdays
- Cooking dinner
- Paying her a compliment
- Going for a walk together
- Give her a massage or foot rub
- Making breakfast in bed
- Running her a bath
- Doing the vacuuming
- Putting a load of washing on
- Go shopping or on a family day out with them instead of watching/playing football.
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